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  • 08-10-17 Dossier to Ottawa
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  • 08-09-04 Provincial Approval Received
  • 08-07-08 Completed Dossier Sent to Province for Approval
  • 08-06-26 HAR Signed and sent back to ABC
  • 08-05-16 HAR Started
  • 08-04-22 Int'l Adoption Self-Study Course Completed
  • 08-04-07 Application sent to ABC
  • 08-02-19 Initial Application faxed to Imagine
  • 08-02-16 References Requested from Friends

Saturday, February 21, 2009

IA: What a Disappointment

Okay, how does it happen that IA can refer a child for adoption while the child is at the transition home, and then the orphanage that child came from just comes and takes the child back? I don't understand! Adoptive parents pay IA to take care of their hoodlums, and if they are not at the TH and IA has no idea about what is going on with them, how can they pass that off as taking care of our kids? You may not know what I'm talking about, or maybe you do -- this has happened to one of my fellow adopting bloggers. I do not understand. But based on this, and the agency's response, I am seriously questioning my choice of agency. When I talked to E about the conditions that my child will be in, I was encouraged that the staff: child ratio was 1:4. That's comparable with North American standards. How can they talk about this great TH, but not mention that the children they refer may not actually spend the time from referral to gotcha day there? I honestly can't believe that this has happened. I can't imagine how numb the mom must be not really knowing anything about where her boy is. Absurd. Brutal. IA, what the hell? We expect better of you. You have led us to expect better of you. What a disappointment. Lose the faith of you clients, and your business will soon follow. Pull up your socks. Get your shtuff together.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

When we picked up our children from the CAFAC home, there were 67++ kids and 8 caregivers in a 3 bedroom home.
So...IA is DEFINITLY still the best choice!!!!!

hazel said...

This is outrageous!

Ranavan said...

I know what you are talking about and I, too, am left shaking my head asking what is going on?

Rana
- Yvan and I are adopting from E too!

Anonymous said...

It is insane!! I don't understand what is going on with IA - they are losing kids, threatening parents, not communicating, reading our blogs and boards spying on us?!! This has clearly become a business for them and they are no longer putting the children's interests first. And, I can not put my name to this, because I am now scared of them as they are siccing the lawyers on everyone!!

Melanie said...

Hmmm... in regards to your second anonymous comment, you may want to back down on some of your comments... lawyers? Slander? You do NOT want things to fall apart now. Maybe you should edit some of your posts just in case... so much for freedom of speech, but is the loss of your adoption process woth it?

Melissa said...

Melanie,
I have not slandered at all. I have stated facts, which have not been brought to my attention by a confidential communication. I have every right to comment on what I see. It should not give IA the right to cut me off.

Anonymous said...

I am glad someone had the guts to finally say all of this out loud.